Sunday, August 22, 2010

One of my friends boyfriends is trying to push her further than she wants to, what can I tell her for advice?

I don't know details, but he is trying to push her further than she want to. He's been doing this for a couple weeks. What can I tell her to do?One of my friends boyfriends is trying to push her further than she wants to, what can I tell her for advice?
Tell her that she doesn't have to accept this kind of behaviour and if she feels that he is using her then its better to just let go. Yes it may hurt, but not as much as feeling entirely used. She should not have to give in to anything he wants, if she is not comfortable, and he should learn to accept that. If he doenst realize that she is feeling pressured then maybe she should try talking to him (if he's worth it, if he's using her then he wont care). You can tell her to try to work it out and see how things go, but never ever do something u dont want to, just for someone else.One of my friends boyfriends is trying to push her further than she wants to, what can I tell her for advice?
Tell her to talk to him about it and take a stand (non-agressively).


She should be firm and clear that he's making her uncomfortable by doing this. Explaining that she loves him but just isn't ready to do whatever he wants her to do would be good as well.


If he loves her, he'll listen.





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If she doesn't feel comfortable in the relationship, then she should explain this to her boyfriend. If he doesn't understand, then he doesn't respect her. She should end the relationship because she deserves better.
if she doesn't want to go any further then don't and if he doesn't like it


im sure she can do better have a guy who will respect her decisions


and not push her into something she doesn't want to do
tell her that she needs to tell him to chill out and stop pressuring her. and if he doesn't stop, then she needs to leave his sorry ***. there are so many better guys out there that will respect her and her decisions
You need to tell her to tell him shes not ready for anything more than what he is doing at the moment and that's that
Ask her out

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