This isn't something you can change, honey...
...and I hope you can someday realize that, and love yourself.I am gay and don't want to be. Any advice on how I can change?
Close your eyes and stand in the middle of your room, click your heels three times and repeat:
';There's no way I'm gay..... there's no way I'm gay... there's no way I'm gay...';I am gay and don't want to be. Any advice on how I can change?
Dude I went through the same thing you went through. I been through stage of denial an tried to reject my sexuality. I kept convincing myself I was straight but it did not work. It is not worth it and it sucks to be in denial. You are who you are and no one not even you can change that. Good luck.
Make a personal vow of celibacy and take lots of cold showers....seriously, being a Gay person is not a choice you made - it is a fact of life. Accept it and yourself. Don't wait until you're pushing 50 like me.
nope! sorry you are out of luck. Just live a lie and pretend to be straight if it is that big of a problem.
watch lots of different types of girl porn until one turns you on
Your question needs to be, ';how can I be more accepting of myself, and love myself the way I am?'; If you are gay, there is no changing it. You can pretend to be straight, and get married, and always know inside that you are gay. Eventually, you would just crack. Pflag probably has some good info for you. I wish you luck in finding happiness, you are going to find it within yourself.
Being gay doesn't make you a freak, a sinner or any less worthwhile a person than if you were heterosexual. You have control over your behaviour (you can choose not to date or have sex) but you can't choose whom you're attracted to. I have friends who are gay, and the ones who are honest about themselves are much happier than the ones who try to make it go away. I'm not saying you have to rush out there and start dating, just that you don't need to be ashamed of who you are.
If you are feeling like society or your family doesn't accept you, it's tough, but it's their problem, not yours. You are a valuable person, and being gay is just one aspect of you, not your defining feature. A society that refuses to socialise with people who are different to them is not worth your time anyway.
If you are feeling guilty because of a religious issue with being gay, you need to pray about it. I can't tell you what God thinks about it - you need to go to him direct. But I can tell you that he's understanding, forgiving, accepting and loving. Really.
i don't think you can change, i think that people are born that way. but that is what i think, others might say otherwise.
Good Luck to you dude
I have good news for you!
Except that you won't take it as good news.
You can't change who you are. You have been chosen by destiny (I believe more specifically by God for a destiny).
Chosen to do what? To search yourself, to search your heart and establish exactly who you are. (Which no straight man ever has to do)
In knowing who you are to find a strength of character that no straight man will ever find.
In knowing who you are to be true to yourself, and have a pride that no straight man ever has, knowing that you are being true to yourself.
To Know that being true to yourself is the path that is right and just.
When you know yourself that completely, and take a stand in your life, and walk the path of destiny, you gain a strength of character, an emotional stability. There is a joy and a peace there that nobody can quite explain to you.
I am doing you a favour; because I never had aybody to tell me this. I struggled for eight years, despising myself, trying to change myself. I remember the times that I cried in utter hopelessness...
BUT
Being gay is not a curse. The rewards of our destiny are so incredible. I love being gay, and I would not change it for anything.
No straight man ever has to face the inner conflicts we have to face, or the persecutions, but... no straight man ever has the strength of character that comes from these things.
I will tell you the secret of gay pride: I am more man than any straight man will ever be, because no straight man will ever have his metal tested the way I have.
We are a minority; not many are gay. Only the worthy.
What you are is beautiful. People want to lie to you and tell you differently.
You are beautiful, just as you are.
You cannot be healed, because you do not have a disease.
So, this is my good news: you are beautiful just as you are, and you do not need to change.
Respect yourself. Value yourself. Love yourself.
I heard hypno works sometimes. But try having sex with a lot of women. It is very rare but sometimes someone can change there sexuality. I used to be straight, but my cousin turned me bi. I hope it helps!!
';SLAP';! NO you cant change your sexuality, it IS also NOT something you're born with people because when you are born you arent attracted to a certain Sex, youre a darn baby for crying out lound. You choose the sex you are attracted to as you grow older and you will alaways be attracted to them.
why do u want to change for is it because ur scared of what people will think of u .yeah there are some people that are very mean towards gays and all but never change who u are out of fear
You can not change who you TRULY are, you can only hide it. Personally i would not recommend it... holding something like that in can cause some SERIOUS emotional damage.
I suggest you find some friends to bond with. They definitely help you feel better about yourself IMO.
wow- what a question, while you really cannot change it- maybe try abstaining from sex period, or date girls?
I wish I could come up with something better- but i can't. I mean, man I know how you feel. Just try being you, if you do not want people to know you are and cannot change, then it's ur business..
I do not believe that you choose it- but I don't know sh*t really. :)
be you. be happy.
peace.
It would be almost imposible.
Just make sure if you ever have sex to buy good strong rubbers.
Use plenty of lube.
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