He wants to be left alone. I would advice you to leave him alone.He wants to be left alone..need some advice.?
This sounds like a very delicate situation. You are right, if you continue to try to get close to him he will back off more.
Why not take a different tack? Ask your frens or his frens out for a group activity, day at the beach etc etc. You don't have to be lovey dovey with him all the time, just take the time to enjoy being happy together as frens. It'll take the pressure off him for sure and allow you both to enjoy each other (and your frens') company.
So think about transitioning from a private outing with him to a group gathering where you give him his space to have fun with his frens and you have your own fun doing other things.
When a guy says he wants to be left alone, that's exactly what he means. You're not doing that %26amp; because you aren't, you may never get back together again. You are forcing his hand by your constant texting!!! Find things to do %26amp; get on with your life. I'm sure that's what he's doing. Stop messing with the hornet's nest or you're going to get stung badly.
some people need their time. I had a bf like that, he would go into these ';depressions'; and anxiety and when it happened he would need to be alone. I would do it...but it got old after a while. It is something that needs to be understood, but in the same sense, it is selfish. Get on with your life and try to meet someone new to do things with. I miss my bf too (very much)...and he still calls but I convince myself that I don't want to be with him anylonger. Lots of luck to you.
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You gotta let it go. I know its hard, but leave him alone. The more you get in someone's space when they don't want you in it, it only pushes them away. Let him miss you, don't return his texts or calls even if he does, sometimes you have to step out of someone's life for them to realize how much you mean! =)
Hounding him won't bring him back any faster. Both of you need to take the time to evaluate what's going on and what's best. After a few days I'd try texting/calling him and ask if he's ready to talk, if not then it is what it is. You can't force someone to like/love you and you'll be wasting your time trying for something that won't happen. Either way, good luck.. Everything happens for a reason :)
YES! If you keep doing what you are doing he will keep doing what he is doing. If you change, back off etc, then either he will keep ignoring you or decide to come back.
The harder you try, the more you are going to detest yourself for trying. The more you detest yourself, the more you will depend on some man to feel better about yourself. You will go through this again and again until you respect yourself.
LEAVE HIM ALONE. He needs to determine for himself that he misses you and wants to be with you, and he won't do that if you're pestering him. I know it's difficult, but every text or phone call or email sets you back.
I'd leave him alone, and in fact, i'd start getting busy and doing things with friends, find a new hobby and keep myself occupied.
Sitting around waiting for him is wasting a good deal of time. You could be productive or having fun.
Leave him alone. Whatever the issue is, hounding him isn't going to make him change his mind. It may convince him that you're a nut job and he needs to get away from you.
Ha. Last time a guy told me to leave him alone, he got divorce papers. He's already told you what you should do, maybe you should listen.
Just leave him alone. Some people just need time to themselves sometimes. Constantly bothering him won't help.
Leave him be.......
If you guys are dating I would break up
the break thing usually means they are out with another but if you was married then it is tough....
i would text him and tell him that you are done trying but you still like him so then tell him you will give him his space and if he wants he can come back to you when he's ready
Leave him alone - he's done and it's over.
He already told you what you need to do...Leave him alone.
Let it go find someone else
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